All relationships are entered for the personal gain of those in the relationship. When there ceases to be benefit to both parties, the relationship will disintegrate. This holds true for business transactions, friendships, jobs, volunteer work, romantic relationships, even marriages. The benefits that we derive can be financial, emotional, intellectual, physical, social or spiritual. I’m not passing judgement on any relationships – I’m merely stating my observations.

This may sound callous, but if you can prove me wrong, I’ll buy you a beer.